You know, I don't have a problem with gay people, or bi people, or infact straight people for that matter, but when its your boyfriend...
So I'd be a little annoyed if he was gay, but he thinks he's bi, and is therefore completely homophobic.
And fair enough if he is bi, who am I to stop him from having thoughts, so long as he doesnt act on them it's ok with me.
But, its when he talks to me about it, like asking me about this documentary I watched about 4 months ago about a father who couldn't accept his gay kid, also he is watching guys makeout on youtube. Curtoursy of the "emo" craze.
It's just upsetting as it isnt something i can compete with, I can't be male to be wih him, if he is gay? thats it. I'm not even on the map anymore, if it were another girl then I could fight for him, but gay? don't bother.
This may sound like a homophobic rant, but its not. I just think people should know their own sexuality before starting a relationship and if they don't then a) don't start it or b) don't let your partner know your thoughts, and especially don't talk about your worries about your father finding out to them!
Yes, it is very very depressing. He's coming here this weekend...I can already see it being a whole bundle of fun.